What's A Normal Amount of Sex
May/10/12 12:30 Categoriesselfish sex | sexual satisfaction
There’s not a specific amount of sex couples should have per week, month or year to qualify as “normal”. Every person is different and each couple’s approach to sex is unique to themselves. Trying to measure up to some standard can add unhealthy pressure to a reationship and actually reduce the amount of time couples spend making love.
There’s not a specific amount of sex couples should have per week, month or year to qualify as “normal”. Every person is different and each couple’s approach to sex is unique to themselves. Trying to measure up to some standard can add unhealthy pressure to a reationship and actually reduce the amount of time couples spend making love.
That’s really the key here, “MAKE LOVE” it’s a higher form of sex. Intimacy is a complicated mix of physical and emotional desires which have to time out correctly for both people involved to make it a memorable moment. Yes sex is still good…actually SEX IS GREAT!!! However, sex is often times selfish which is why it’s always so much fun. If both of you are selfish in your sex it can lead to great discoveries and enlightenment.
For long term relationships and commitments sex becomes love and love needs constant attention. The longer the relationship the higher the risk of sexual problems and a loss of sexual satisfaction. While men seem to always be interested in sex, women slowly lose their passion for the physical and connect on more of an emotional level. Foreplay and exploration needs to increase for women to become fully engaged in physical intimacy.
If you want to keep it going YOU HAVE TO KEEP IT FRESH!
Avoid sexual routines, if you’ve already fallen into one get out! Think of the bedroom as the last place you want to have sex. Force yourselves to try a new location, new position or toy or gel. It’s not kinky or weird it’s fresh new progress that will keep both of you wanting more and more often. Let yourselves go…stop being so predictable. NOBODY LIKES PREDICTABLE SEX, it’s boring!
What’s improtant to remember about sex and intercourse is that it’s not about the quantity it’s about the quality. Yes men want sex more…they actually, physically, need it more…so go for a “quicky” that’s unpredictable but memorable. Make your intimate time together an emotional connection as well as a physical one. It’s OK to fantasize, try it the next time you make love and see where it takes you.
Fantasy, Passion, Sex…the three best ingredients to “Making Love”.